It can be really challenging when you don't feel like you deserve happiness. It's hard to let in the things that would actually allow you feel better about yourself. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share advice on what you can do when you don't feel like you deserve to be happy. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked what can I do when [...]
When you flirt does the other person crank up the heat to an 11 as a consequence? Problem sometimes occurs when you tell the other person that you're flirting with, that you're a shy, slow, tentative person, but it seems to come across: "I hereby encourage you to channel Pepe Le Pew and ignore all boundaries, starting now." What can you do? Relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com are going to share [...]
Are you always the cool girl friend and never the cool girlfriend? Do you hate the idea of being shut down? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how you can deal with that fear of being shut down. Cathy: We shot a video a while ago about being stuck in the friend zone. Reid: It's a Kenny Loggins song, right? Cathy: It's [...]
There's an assumption that, if you're powerful, then somehow you're not going to notice people. We tend to think that power is automatically reckless or the worry there is that it's going to be reckless. If you want to be a more powerful person, how can you do it without trampling other people, still being aware of other people and giving space for other people to have their needs and wants too? Join [...]
If you're in the mood to be really intimate, connected with your partner, not necessarily sexual, but just connected, present, and your partner's not in the mood, how can you start a conversation maybe to invite them to step into it with you? Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about this. Cathy: If you're in the mood to be really intimate, connected [...]
You're on your way home from work and you're really frustrated. It's a really special night. You really want to be there for your partner and yet, you have road rage. What do you do? How do you change your focus and your state? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to change your mental and emotional state. Cathy: You're on your [...]
What do you do if you tried something with your partner, and you didn't enjoy it at all. You also don't have the desire to do it again, and your partner won't let it go. Something like this might happen in the bedroom or in the relationship in general. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about that. Cathy: What do you do if you tried [...]
If you're hanging out with someone and you're both using skill sets that create warmth and connection, it's really easy to get deeper than you first planned. In these kind of moments it's better not to just dump the relationship and run if you can help it. It is good to know where the breaks are at all times. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share what to [...]
What do you do if you lied? You blurted out a lie without meaning to and then you're afraid to take it back and you're not really sure there's safe space to do so. What can you do? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share thoughts about how to clean up your lie. Cathy: Another viewer wrote in and said what do you [...]
Hedonism has gotten a bad slant, like people use the word to mean something negative. But looking for pleasure or happiness is not necessarily a bad thing. You need to be selfish in life - you actually need to take care of yourself first. Hear relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about when does taking care of yourself drop into selfishness or hedonism. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked, [...]
