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How Do You Get Your Partner To Make More Plans… When That Isn’t Their Style?

How Do You Get Your Partner To Make More Plans... When That Isn't Their Style? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_q-GUMqAwE   Cathy: I’m here with Elizabeth Wood from https://www.bedevents.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and that can be so frustrating, if you’re someone who loves to have things planned ahead and your partner just doesn’t do that that you can feel unloved and uncared about even if they do it, it’s just not their self-expression I remember [...]

By |2017-08-28T21:26:08+00:00May 3, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Releasing The Feeling Of Being Tired of Carrying Other People’s Nonsense

Releasing The Feeling Of Being Tired of Carrying Other People's Nonsense https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MN6nm1rJhtY Cathy: This is Jimanekia Eborn from https://www.SEwJim.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. I do a lot of work using emotional freedom techniques as well as a coaching on intimacy. Basically I can pressure points where we can release some of the tension and stored energies in our body, help our primitive brain or survival brain relax, talk to our cognitive [...]

By |2017-08-28T21:19:14+00:00April 30, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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What Is the Difference between Being Scared and Being Endangered?

What Is the Difference between Being Scared and Being Endangered? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AskMNjMxlNE Cathy: What is the difference between being scared and being endangered? I’m with Jimanekia Eborn from http://www.SEwJim.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ and I think it’s really important to distinguish this sometimes because in our society there’s this kind of collapse where if I feel fear, either this other person is harming me or I shouldn’t do this [...]

By |2017-08-28T21:12:19+00:00April 27, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|
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Can Sexual Trauma Ruin Your Sex Life?

Can Sexual Trauma Ruin Your Sex Life?   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRlBJ-ufCMo Jimanekia: Has your sexual trauma ruined your sex life? I’m Jimanekia Eborn with http://www.SEwJim.com/ and I’m with Cathy Vartuli with oh my God.   Cathy: http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/, No it’s okay.   Jimanekia: http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/   Cathy: Yeah. Reid forgets sometimes and we’ve done like 500 videos.   Jimanekia: I was like, I know this. http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and so Cathy, what do you think?   [...]

By |2017-08-28T21:05:27+00:00April 24, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|
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How Do You Date If You’re Disabled? Tips For Getting Out There!

How Do You Date If You're Disabled? Tips For Getting Out There! If you have disabilities, are there tips on how to date? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robyn Wilson Beatty from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XyIIMGpAsVs Cathy: How do you date if you're disabled? I’m here with Robin Wilson-Beattie Robin: Hi! Cathy: from @sexAbled on twitter and I’m Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ and Robin you're kind of an expert on this. Robin: [...]

By |2017-08-28T20:57:54+00:00April 21, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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When You’ve Been Really Sick…

When You've Been Really Sick... Not many people talk about what its like after you've been really sick. There are things that can make it easier to know...Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_9OiFyEEVo Cathy: So Robin, you and I have both been sick and one   Robin: Oh.   Cathy: of the things that I was so surprised with afterwards was nobody told me I’d [...]

By |2017-08-28T20:50:08+00:00April 18, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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What Do You Do When You Can’t Admit Something Isn’t Working?

What Do You Do When You Can't Admit Something Isn't Working? When you get stuck, it can be really hard to stop and just admit it isn't working. What do you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNtg5WHdLDE Robin: Let me think what they’re struggling about that?   Cathy: No I’m going to tell you.   Robin: Oh yeah, that’s what I’m saying.   Cathy: [...]

By |2017-08-28T18:30:32+00:00April 15, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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When You’re Dating Someone New, Should You Sleep With Them Right Away?

When You're Dating Someone New, Should You Sleep With Them Right Away? Fuck first, or wait awhile? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com, Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com and Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com, with special guest, sexy librarian! @DrYoniAlkan @sexpospsych @JewelotusTantra https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-pvB5fuA_A Liz: So when you’re dating someone new, should you have sex with them first or make them wait awhile? I’m Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com/   Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ [...]

By |2017-08-28T18:26:16+00:00April 12, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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How Do You Find The Confidence and Courage To Own All Of You When You’re Out There Dating?

How Do You Find The Confidence and Courage To Own All Of You When You're Out There Dating? How do you say "I'm disabled," or "I'm a bigger woman," and own the things that sadly some people don't sometimes see as valuable when dating? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com How Do You Find The Confidence and Courage To Own All Of You When You're Out [...]

By |2017-08-28T18:15:49+00:00April 9, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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What About Self-Care and Self-Love?

What About Self-Care and Self-Love? If you haven't be taking care of yourself, all the sex geeky skills in the world aren't going to help. What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com, Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com and Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com, with special guest, sexy librarian! @DrYoniAlkan @sexpospsych @JewelotusTantra https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfcVnmKYyq8   Cathy: What about self-care and self-love? I’m Cathy Vartuli from from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com   Liz: I’m Doctor Liz from [...]

By |2017-08-28T18:16:34+00:00April 6, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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