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Being Comfortable In Front Of The Video Camera… Or Doing It Anyway.

How do you shoot videos when you're uncomfortable in front of the camera? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com share. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kjj5q4b24FE Reid: I'm so scared. Cathy: We talk a lot about videos when Reid and I do videos and we encourage a lot of people to get out there and make videos. I wanted to just share ... well, actually, Reid's here egging me on ... that [...]

By |2017-05-08T20:06:57+00:00October 5, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Energy|
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Tuning In Energetically During Sex…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OeznFObqylU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said… Reid: Flowers Cathy: Coming out on the top of your head? Reid: Yep Cathy: Oh, sorry. Reid: What they say? We have writing people who write us and say nice things and ask this questions. Cathy: Yes. Someone said she can feel her partner’s arousal energetically and she relates it. She wants to feel more about how can she tune in more, feel [...]

By |2017-05-08T18:08:49+00:00October 2, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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Changing Your Mind vs Telling A Lie…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_bK8lGy3IA Cathy: We've talked about before about what to do if you're caught in a lie or you catch somebody else in a lie. Someone wrote in and said, "My boyfriend has lied to me a number of times now, and he told me that he wanted to do something, and then he changed his mind, and I consider that a lie. What do I do now?" I'd like to [...]

By |2017-05-08T17:51:56+00:00September 29, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Delivery, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|
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Self-Sabotage And Then Falling Into A Shame Spiral… What Do You Do?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cl900EHIkO8 Cathy: What do you do when you self-sabotage something that you really wanted to do, and now you're kind of falling in a shame spiral? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We had someone write in, and again, this was about the webinar, "My partner doesn't want to sleep with me." She felt like she'd ruined ... He was planning a nice surprise [...]

By |2017-05-08T17:45:04+00:00September 26, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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Is There A Male G-Spot?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6PxHsTWOhU Reid: Is there a male G-spot? I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: The answer's yes. Cathy: Called the P-spot. Reid: But it begins with a P, yes. It's the male prostate. Cathy: It can be a lot of fun for men that like that. There are a number of great guides out there and classes you can take. Reid: But the ultimate guide- [...]

By |2017-05-08T17:37:25+00:00September 23, 2017|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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Is Lack of Desire Causing Problems in Your Relationship?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lfv8YS0XeMI Cathy: In response to your webinar about my partner doesn't want to sleep with me, we've had a lot of people writing in about this. It's a great question. This woman wrote in and said, "In this situation, I'm the one who doesn't desire sex. It's just not there no matter what we've tried." They think it's menopause and hormones, but they're having trouble in their relationship because of [...]

By |2017-05-08T17:30:58+00:00September 20, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch, Trauma|
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On-Again-Off-Again Sex Drive? What Can You Do?

How do you deal with it when you and your partner have an on again - off again sexual connection? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ASa5NMSWYU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -" Reid: Is it "we have had" or "I have had"?  Cathy: This person wrote in, "I've been in [...]

By |2017-05-09T16:28:52+00:00September 17, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|
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Told A Lie, And They Won’t Forgive You? What Can You Do?

What do you do if someone won't forgive you because you lied to him? What if he tells about it to your friends? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4H1tACnA2w8 Cathy: We've talked about people, “What happens if you tell a lie and how do you fix it?” Someone wrote in reply that, “But what if the person doesn't want to forgive you and what if [...]

By |2017-05-09T16:21:46+00:00September 14, 2017|Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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What If Your Husband Is Just Not Interested In Sex?

How do you deal when your husband doesn't want to have sex with you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZ7yxAv7n7c Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "My husband and I have had frank discussions about our lack of sexual relations for the past several years. His final answer is, ‘I'm just not interested.’ That took me by surprise and I don't know [...]

By |2017-05-09T16:13:04+00:00September 11, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Touch|
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What Is INCEL and Why Do People Use The Term?

What's the meaning of INCEL? Are there undateable people? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EWmIBhf1Ck Cathy: Do you know what “Incel” means?  And how to use it? Reid: How do you spell it? Cathy:  I-N-C-E-L. Reid:  Google it! Google fuckin’ exist. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Before you Google things, If you’re some junior, what’s ‘Incel’? [...]

By |2017-05-09T16:08:10+00:00September 8, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|
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