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I Have A Hard Time Tuning In And Being More Present

Finding out where your venn diagram overlaps with your partner so you might be able to find your yes in an area that's really juicy for them too. If you have a hard time tuning into that, and always feel rushed and in a hurry, then join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to slow down, and be more present. Cathy: Someone asked when...we [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:01:57+00:00July 8, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Recover From A Critical Partner?

Was your partner very critical over a period of time, and now he's being less critical, but it's really hard for you to go back. Do you feel shut down, and expecting criticism every time you talk? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to talk about delayed ejaculation and increase pleasure. Reid: Surprise topic! Cathy: I think you can't be that loud, because their speakers [...]

By |2016-04-13T07:38:21+00:00July 5, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Walking Into Your Fear in Relationships and Life

Reid has a great talk that he gives about walking towards the gun. When he talks about relationships and he talks about how to move your relationships forward, and this also applies to moving your life forward. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about walking into your fear in relationships and life. Reid: What's next? Cathy: Reid, you talk ... you have this great [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:07:44+00:00July 2, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|

What Do You Do If Your Partner Lies To You Repeatedly?

Is your partner keep lying to you but you don't want to leave him/her? First, know that there's a difference between that kind of lie which is not really a big deal, versus those really big lies that can affect your relationship and your partner is keeping them from you. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about what to do, if your partner lies to [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:06:27+00:00June 29, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|

How Do I Know If My Partner Is Faking It?

How do you know if your partner had orgasm? We all have faked orgasm before, it's true, we do sometimes. What you want to start doing is start talking to each other about the kind of sex that you like. What gets you off, what doesn't get you off, when you're not having the sex. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and find out more about [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:42:41+00:00June 26, 2015|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch|

My Partner Is Horrible At Reframing Fighting… I Want To Give Up!

Is your partner horrible at reframing fighting? Do you get to the point where you just give up because you don’t care? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to learn how to reframe fighting and fight better. Cathy: In our video about reframing fighting, which I really enjoyed doing I think it's really useful information. Someone wrote: "Oh my god. [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:06:46+00:00June 23, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Are You Feeling Disappointment Or Rejection?

How do you know if you're feeling disappointment or rejection? And how do you deal with them? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What is the difference between disappointment and rejection? Knowing that difference can make your life a lot easier, and we'll be going into that in just a minute. This is Reid Mihalko… Reid: From http://ReidAboutSex.com, and this is Cathy Vartuli… Cathy: From [...]

By |2016-01-04T06:00:54+00:00June 20, 2015|Trauma|

Fighting Over The Same Silly Thing… Over And Over

Do you have the same conflict coming up over and over? What can you do? Tips and ideas with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: It's Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: OK, so Cathy are you going to try to put the camera over here and try to film us both at the same time. Cathy: I will do my [...]

By |2016-01-05T06:11:05+00:00June 17, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Handling Disappointment Can Be Challenging…Unless You Know How!

A simple tip on dealing with Disappointment with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We often get disappointed in life, and knowing how to handle that disappointment can make the difference between moving forward much more easily and feeling devastated. This is- Reid: (Blows nose loudly) Cathy: I feel very disappointed in my shirt right now. Reid: Acting. That was great. I'm an acting teacher. I'm [...]

By |2016-01-04T06:00:06+00:00June 14, 2015|Relationship Skills|

How Much Does Body Image Effect Social Status

Does conventional beauty give you more status? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Where are we Cathy? Cathy: We are in New Mexico. Reid: Why are we in New Mexico? Cathy: We're driving to Albuquerque. Reid: New Mexico. Cathy: Yes. Reid: We're in the right state. Cathy: Yes. Reid: Excellent. That's a good sign. I'm Reid Mihalko, from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:26:14+00:00June 11, 2015|Body Image|
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