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When Desire Goes Away… What Do You Do?

If you've been enjoying sex and sensuality... what do you do when all of sudden the passion and wanting go away? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What if you've been pretty sexual, pretty sensual and all of the sudden the desire goes away? It can be really hard and really confusing. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. What [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:47:47+00:00June 18, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Talking To Your Partner About Touch You Don’t Like In Bed

How can you offer your partner an upgrade about touch in bed? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you if your partner's touching you in ways that you don't particularly like?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo. The long suffering Cathy Vartuli.  Reid: It's awesome. The long suffering Cathy Vartuli.  Cathy: This is [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:44:20+00:00June 15, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Play With A Bigger Person? How Do You Talk About It?

Is there a difference in being sexual with a bigger person? Can you talk about it? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So, what if you have never slept with a bigger person? And, you want to? How do you talk to them about what's going on and how to play with them?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:41:18+00:00June 12, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Is Poly Just For The Rich and Educated?

Could being poly be "irresponsible" and the playground of the wealthy and educated only? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: In regards to the interview you did with Esther Perel and Diana Adams, which was really good-  Reid: Thank you.  Cathy: About polyamory, someone said, "Would these academic people think differently if they lost their prosperity? I'm convinced they would. These are results of [...]

By |2016-01-07T08:55:42+00:00June 6, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When Is It Time To Pull Out?

Knowing the sensations just before you come give you greater control and possibility during sex. With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko for http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: We have a question.  Cathy: You actually started this as a joke, but I actually want to know. How do you know [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:32:40+00:00May 19, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Keep Running Into An Ex-Friend And Feel Drawn To Reconnect?

If you're in the same social circle and keep running into an ex-friend... How do you not get pulled in again? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: All right. Someone wrote in and said that they watched our video about talking about conflict.  Reid: We love when you write in!  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: Keep writing in.  Cathy: She said it actually went really [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:00:25+00:00May 16, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Trauma|

Can You Really Just Watch Your Partner Sleep With Someone Else?

If your partner wants to sleep with someone else, does it work for you to watch? Or does that make you feel bad? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "What's wrong with you dude? You just sit there and watch while someone else fucked your girl?" and while the language wasn't very polite I really think there's a [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:04:00+00:00May 1, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

3 Top Tips To Make Going Down On Her Mind Blowing

Get your PhD in Cunnilingus with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Cunnilingus tips? Cathy: Yes. Reid: All right. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Reid travels all around the country teaching a workshop at sex-toy stores and colleges on how to be a better lover. Reid: I teach all kinds of things like that. [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:30:34+00:00April 28, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How To Give An Awesome Blowjob!

Ever wonder how you can give a better blowjob? Or what to request for a mind-blowing experience? Learn more with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you give a blowjob? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We teach this amazing workshop on how to give a blowjob. Reid: It's called blowjob grad school, [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:34:09+00:00April 25, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Enjoying Playing The Field… But Your Partner Doesn’t Want To Have Sex With You Anymore?

It hurts when your partner doesn't want to sleep with you anymore. It can be even more painful if you see them having sex with others! What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: So we had a writer, write in. We're not going to read it, but it was lengthy, in a good way. We love when you leave us [...]

By |2016-01-07T08:23:32+00:00April 7, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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