Touch

Are There Protocals For Long Term Relationships That Aren’t Aiming For Marriage?

How do you have a long term relationship that's conscious and loving, but doesn't look like marriage, children, joint checking accounts (necessarily). Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWnmEWayJNQ Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they love the slut protocols that you put together. Reid: Yeah, http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/slutprotocols. Cathy: But they wanted to know if you have created a set of protocols for longer term [...]

By |2017-05-05T13:51:12+00:00August 6, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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Wound Up After A Sexual Encounter? Can’t Sleep?

Are you finding hard to sleep after a sexual encounter? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So what do you do… Reid: Tada!! Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Never spin around. That’s an intro. Cathy: Would you like to spin back right now? Reid: No, I’ll do it at the end. What are we talking about? Cathy: Someone wrote in [...]

By |2017-05-03T01:40:04+00:00June 10, 2017|Flirting, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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Can I Be A Sex Educator Even If I’m Not Having A Lot Of Sex Right Now?

Does a sex educator have to be having great sex a lot to be in integrity? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: I can't take him anywhere. Reid: That's why we sit right here, in front of this camera. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they're a sex educator. Good job. They're also going through a lot of transition about their sexuality right [...]

By |2016-09-23T15:26:10+00:00April 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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Does Holding Hands Make You Uncomfortable? Can You Get Close To People Anyway?

Are you scared or uncomfortable holding hands? How can you date or let people close? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: What do you do if you want to get close to people, you want to go dating, but you're scared of holding hands?  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. If you are not comfortable [...]

By |2016-09-23T14:36:08+00:00January 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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Afraid of Touch? Tips for Creating Safety Around Touch

Fear of touch can create a conflict- you long for connection and you freeze up at the thought. People need touch to really thrive. Avoid skin hunger and learn how to start feeling safer receiving concentual touch and getting the warmth and connection you long for. Reid Mihalko from http://www.reidaboutsex.com/ and Cathy Vartuli from https://www.theintimacydojo.com/ share tips and approaches to allow you to feel safer giving and receiving touch. Cathy: Hey, [...]

By |2016-09-23T14:31:29+00:00January 17, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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Certain Sexual Positions Hurt… Is That Normal?

Its fun to be able to mix it up and try new things... But what if some of the sexual positions you try hurt? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "I'm wondering if it's normal to have pain during certain sexual positions. I noticed that when riding my boyfriend or being in the doggy [...]

By |2016-09-22T16:48:51+00:00December 24, 2016|Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch, Trauma|
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Can Stimulating The G-Spot Bruise The Urethra?

The G-spot can be really fun to play with... But can you hurt someone if you do it too hard? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: One of our viewers in Germany wrote in and said "Hey there guys."  Reid: Germany?  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: Hello Germany.  Cathy: It's great to see you. "Hey there guys. I hope it's okay to ask you this. [...]

By |2016-09-22T16:47:42+00:00December 21, 2016|Body Image, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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What Do You Do When Your Friends and Family Are Ashamed Of Your Sex Positive Work?

It can be challenging enough to do this work! What about when people shame you around what you do? What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you handle it when your family and friends don't support the work you do around sex education? When they think it might be shameful or really just not okay? Reid: And they [...]

By |2016-09-22T15:30:43+00:00December 6, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch|
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If You Don’t Want To Have Sex With Your Partner… Should You?

Do you tell your partner if you're not in the mood to have sex?     Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1GTMgV5HqBU Reid: Welcome back. Or if this is the first video that you are watching. Welcome for the first time. Cathy: We are talking about how you can talk to your partner about not wanting to have sex, and do it in [...]

By |2016-08-08T19:36:48+00:00August 11, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Touch|
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Talking To Your Partner About Touch You Don’t Like In Bed

How can you offer your partner an upgrade about touch in bed? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you if your partner's touching you in ways that you don't particularly like?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo. The long suffering Cathy Vartuli.  Reid: It's awesome. The long suffering Cathy Vartuli.  Cathy: This is [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:44:20+00:00June 15, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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