The Intimacy Dojo Blog

How Do I Keep Casual Sex, Casual?

If you have casual sex, how do you keep the connection... casual? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQPhQvqbW_E Cathy: So we just answered the question about how to have casual sex and leave your partner feeling great but someone else wrote in said I’ve noticed that whenever I have sex with people even if we have agreed on casual sex after I first time I have casual sex with them they start calling me like [...]

By | 2017-05-09T13:30:33+00:00 October 23, 2017|Collaborators, Dating, Delivery, Energy, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Can I Have Casual Sex And Leave Them Feeling Great?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7p91IWa1t3w Cathy: Someone wrote in and said to Reid, I love your interview with Christopher Ryan. It was really good and he continued although it’s too short I definitely need help with the cabin casual sex and leaving a girl feeling great about our relationship. Can you give us some advice? This is Reid Mihalko from https://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and we have a new microphone that we’re [...]

Is It Okay To Come In A Woman’s Mouth?

What's the protocol about coming in a woman's mouth when she's going down on you? With Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKAIQgKzwQ8 Dan: Hi. One of the questions that I've gotten in the past is, is it okay to come in a woman's mouth especially the first couple dates or so? I'm Dan Powers with http://BeyondTheBedroomEvents.com/ and this is Elizabeth Wood. Elizabeth: I'm [...]

By | 2017-05-08T20:49:39+00:00 October 17, 2017|Uncategorized|

What Do You Do If Someone Smells? How Do You Tell Them?

Dealing with someone's odors can be challenging. Can you talk to them about it? Learn how with Dan Powers and Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSjaD2CsmVQ Dan: Have you ever been to an event and somebody really smell not quite right for you.  Well, I’ve got two beautiful women here that can help us answer the question.. Cathy and Elizabeth:  What do you do then? [...]

By | 2017-05-08T20:37:48+00:00 October 14, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

Dealing with Body Image And Shame In The Bedroom…

How do you get past body image issues and shame when you're getting sexual? With Dan Power and Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EbzwshBroDM Cathy: In life in general and especially in the bedroom, body image and shame can really crop up and lock our flow and our sexuality and our feeling of desirability. We have some amazing people here tonight and we're going to [...]

By | 2017-05-08T20:30:20+00:00 October 11, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

Looking For An Older Woman To Date? Cougar Hunting?

Like dating older women but aren't sure how to find them or how to go about it? Find out how with Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAr_9Mcodu4 Cathy: So someone wrote in and said that it sound a little cheapest like he wasn’t sure that it was okay to ask but he said, I really like dating older women, I’m 24 and I [...]

By | 2017-05-08T20:21:44+00:00 October 8, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Being Comfortable In Front Of The Video Camera… Or Doing It Anyway.

How do you shoot videos when you're uncomfortable in front of the camera? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com share. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kjj5q4b24FE Reid: I'm so scared. Cathy: We talk a lot about videos when Reid and I do videos and we encourage a lot of people to get out there and make videos. I wanted to just share ... well, actually, Reid's here egging me on ... that [...]

By | 2017-05-08T20:06:57+00:00 October 5, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Energy|

Tuning In Energetically During Sex…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OeznFObqylU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said… Reid: Flowers Cathy: Coming out on the top of your head? Reid: Yep Cathy: Oh, sorry. Reid: What they say? We have writing people who write us and say nice things and ask this questions. Cathy: Yes. Someone said she can feel her partner’s arousal energetically and she relates it. She wants to feel more about how can she tune in more, feel [...]

By | 2017-05-08T18:08:49+00:00 October 2, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Changing Your Mind vs Telling A Lie…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_bK8lGy3IA Cathy: We've talked about before about what to do if you're caught in a lie or you catch somebody else in a lie. Someone wrote in and said, "My boyfriend has lied to me a number of times now, and he told me that he wanted to do something, and then he changed his mind, and I consider that a lie. What do I do now?" I'd like to [...]

Self-Sabotage And Then Falling Into A Shame Spiral… What Do You Do?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cl900EHIkO8 Cathy: What do you do when you self-sabotage something that you really wanted to do, and now you're kind of falling in a shame spiral? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We had someone write in, and again, this was about the webinar, "My partner doesn't want to sleep with me." She felt like she'd ruined ... He was planning a nice surprise [...]

By | 2017-05-08T17:45:04+00:00 September 26, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|