The Intimacy Dojo Blog

Is it really possible to fall in love with more than one person at a time?

Is it really possible to fall in love with more than one person at a time? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-W_JVLYiX8 Cathy: Can you really fall in love with more than one person at a time? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com   Cathy: And we talk about poly a lot but we had someone write in really sweet beautiful question about, you were talking about your slut [...]

By | 2017-08-31T14:56:32+00:00 May 21, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How to run an awesome positive play party?

How to run an awesome positive play party? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lWsfZ4SCadQ Cathy: How do you run a great sex positive play party? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com who’s thrown a bunch of parties. Reid: Like a lot at this point, very many. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com who’s thrown fewer than I but still an impressive note. Cathy: So Reid I really loved how you throw play parties and I’ve been asking in [...]

By | 2017-08-28T22:01:51+00:00 May 18, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How to ask permission to join in a cuddle party or orgy?

How to ask permission to join in a cuddle party or orgy? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NbumcX12emk Cathy: We did a video on intimacy and ease of talking to people, everyone in a pile at a cuddle party or play party getting consent for joining in and someone wrote back and said, I realize, what a great idea, I really appreciate you guys doing a video and I’m not really been participating, I realize [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:51:32+00:00 May 15, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do You Do If You Have Low Libido Due To Stress?

What Do You Do If You Have Low Libido Due To Stress? What do you do if you aren't interested in sex because of all the stress in your life? With Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BedEvents.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k_ddLrrw7hc Cathy: What do you do if you have low libido due to low hormones? I’m here with Elizabeth Wood from http://beyondthebedroomevents.com/  and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/. Thanks for being here Elizabeth. [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:46:17+00:00 May 12, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Is There Anything You Can Do About Low Libido Due to Low Hormones?

Is There Anything You Can Do About Low Libido Due to Low Hormones? What do you do if you aren't interested in sex because of low hormones? With Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BedEvents.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YU8pyI8cOqY Cathy: What do you do if you have low libido due to low hormones? I’m here with Elizabeth Wood from http://beyondthebedroomevents.com/  and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/. Thanks for being here Elizabeth.   Elizabeth: Thanks [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:40:26+00:00 May 9, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When You’re On The Road, How Do You Support Your Partner Back At Home?

When You're On The Road, How Do You Support Your Partner Back At Home? You're busy traveling and doing all the things you need to do, how do you support your partner back at home? With Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BedEvents.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfYBz3EJRvk Cathy: When you’re on the road, how do you support your partner who stuck back at home keeping the home fires burning? This is Elizabeth Wood from [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:35:28+00:00 May 6, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Get Your Partner To Make More Plans… When That Isn’t Their Style?

How Do You Get Your Partner To Make More Plans... When That Isn't Their Style? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_q-GUMqAwE   Cathy: I’m here with Elizabeth Wood from https://www.bedevents.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and that can be so frustrating, if you’re someone who loves to have things planned ahead and your partner just doesn’t do that that you can feel unloved and uncared about even if they do it, it’s just not their self-expression I remember [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:26:08+00:00 May 3, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Releasing The Feeling Of Being Tired of Carrying Other People’s Nonsense

Releasing The Feeling Of Being Tired of Carrying Other People's Nonsense https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MN6nm1rJhtY Cathy: This is Jimanekia Eborn from https://www.SEwJim.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. I do a lot of work using emotional freedom techniques as well as a coaching on intimacy. Basically I can pressure points where we can release some of the tension and stored energies in our body, help our primitive brain or survival brain relax, talk to our cognitive [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:19:14+00:00 April 30, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Is the Difference between Being Scared and Being Endangered?

What Is the Difference between Being Scared and Being Endangered? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AskMNjMxlNE Cathy: What is the difference between being scared and being endangered? I’m with Jimanekia Eborn from http://www.SEwJim.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ and I think it’s really important to distinguish this sometimes because in our society there’s this kind of collapse where if I feel fear, either this other person is harming me or I shouldn’t do this [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:12:19+00:00 April 27, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

Can Sexual Trauma Ruin Your Sex Life?

Can Sexual Trauma Ruin Your Sex Life?   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRlBJ-ufCMo Jimanekia: Has your sexual trauma ruined your sex life? I’m Jimanekia Eborn with http://www.SEwJim.com/ and I’m with Cathy Vartuli with oh my God.   Cathy: http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/, No it’s okay.   Jimanekia: http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/   Cathy: Yeah. Reid forgets sometimes and we’ve done like 500 videos.   Jimanekia: I was like, I know this. http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and so Cathy, what do you think?   [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:05:27+00:00 April 24, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|