How To Make Sure Your Date Is Aware That You're Not Out Poly or Kinky Because of Work or Kids https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c62edJXqpYs Cathy: If you’re poly and you’re dating, are there good ways to make sure that people you’re dating are aware that you’re not coming out because of work or kids? Reid: I really thought you’d say “If you’re poly and dating clap your hands” (claps his hands). [...]
Is It True That Men Don't Have To Masturbate and Their Partners Should Do It For Them? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uoDOCuFpDCs Cathy: In response to our video in masturbation someone wrote in and says the guy doesn’t have to masturbate his wife or girlfriend can do if or him. He should never have to jerk off if he has a woman and if he has a foot fetish, she can use her sexy [...]
You're In A Mono/Poly Relationship And The Poly Partner Is In Love with Someone Else, What To Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=umk8J-9r-MQ Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, we’re in a mono/poly relationship, the woman is monogamous and her partner is poly and he’s just starting out to date other people, they just opened up the relationship for him and he’s had a couple of dates but the dates didn’t really [...]
How To Avoid Premature Connection by Having Multiple Partners How to find play partners so you can have multiple lovers and avoid connecting too deeply too soon? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-_8kWgpiAg Cathy: Someone wrote in and said “Hi Reid! I’m working my way through the why are people into that podcast and came across your episode. You suggested getting multiple partners to avoid developing premature feelings to anyone and said something along the [...]
Is it really possible to fall in love with more than one person at a time? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-W_JVLYiX8 Cathy: Can you really fall in love with more than one person at a time? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: And we talk about poly a lot but we had someone write in really sweet beautiful question about, you were talking about your slut [...]
How to run an awesome positive play party? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lWsfZ4SCadQ Cathy: How do you run a great sex positive play party? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com who’s thrown a bunch of parties. Reid: Like a lot at this point, very many. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com who’s thrown fewer than I but still an impressive note. Cathy: So Reid I really loved how you throw play parties and I’ve been asking in [...]
How to ask permission to join in a cuddle party or orgy? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NbumcX12emk Cathy: We did a video on intimacy and ease of talking to people, everyone in a pile at a cuddle party or play party getting consent for joining in and someone wrote back and said, I realize, what a great idea, I really appreciate you guys doing a video and I’m not really been participating, I realize [...]
What Do You Do If You Have Low Libido Due To Stress? What do you do if you aren't interested in sex because of all the stress in your life? With Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BedEvents.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k_ddLrrw7hc Cathy: What do you do if you have low libido due to low hormones? I’m here with Elizabeth Wood from http://beyondthebedroomevents.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/. Thanks for being here Elizabeth. [...]
Is There Anything You Can Do About Low Libido Due to Low Hormones? What do you do if you aren't interested in sex because of low hormones? With Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BedEvents.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YU8pyI8cOqY Cathy: What do you do if you have low libido due to low hormones? I’m here with Elizabeth Wood from http://beyondthebedroomevents.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/. Thanks for being here Elizabeth. Elizabeth: Thanks [...]
When You're On The Road, How Do You Support Your Partner Back At Home? You're busy traveling and doing all the things you need to do, how do you support your partner back at home? With Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BedEvents.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfYBz3EJRvk Cathy: When you’re on the road, how do you support your partner who stuck back at home keeping the home fires burning? This is Elizabeth Wood from [...]
