Energy

What Do You Do About A Mini-Stalker?

How do you handle someone who is SOOO excited about you that they mini-stalk you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: How do you deal with someone who mini-stalks you? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We've all had times where people really enjoyed being with us or we've enjoyed being with them, but sometimes people don't [...]

By |2016-01-05T08:37:33+00:00September 16, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|
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When Someone Says Really Mean Things… What Do You Do?

What to do when someone says something really mean to you? Examples with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: From the road. Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Answering your questions to our videos. Cathy: In reply to our video on how to handle mean people, how to deal with them. Reid: Somebody left a really mean comment. Cathy: Yes. Reid: [...]

By |2016-04-12T22:45:38+00:00September 10, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills, Trauma|
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How Do You Deal With Change In A Relationship?

Moving across country for a job? Any big change can stress a relationship. What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: Dealing with change in a relationship can be really challenging. Moving across country because one person has a job or for other reasons, that can put a lot of turmoil into a relationship. How do you deal with that? I'm Cathy [...]

By |2016-01-08T07:35:30+00:00July 21, 2015|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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I Have A Hard Time Tuning In And Being More Present

Finding out where your venn diagram overlaps with your partner so you might be able to find your yes in an area that's really juicy for them too. If you have a hard time tuning into that, and always feel rushed and in a hurry, then join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to slow down, and be more present. Cathy: Someone asked when...we [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:01:57+00:00July 8, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Self Soothing When You’re Stressed!

It can be hard to sooth yourself or release stress. Sometimes the small (and goofy) things can make a big difference. Join the ever humorous Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share their secrets. Reid: Do you self s- What? Cathy: Self soothe. Reid: Self soothe. What are your practices for making yourself unstress? Cathy: It's a really important topic because a lot of people [...]

By |2016-01-05T07:53:32+00:00May 27, 2015|Energy|
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How Do You Avoid Dependency In A Relationship?

We’re all taught that we should avoid dependency in a relationship, that codependency is bad. What can you do to avoid that? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share more about this topic. Cathy: We're all taught that we should avoid dependency in a relationship, that it's bad, codependency is bad. What can you do to avoid that? This is Reid Mihalko [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:38:14+00:00May 4, 2015|Dating, Energy, Relationship Skills|
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Finding A Balance: Self-Expression and Helping Others Feel Comfortable

How to find a balance where you're not offending? Some people are hard to read so you don't always know, if you've offended people. Finding that safe balance  can be a challenge. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how to find a balance between self-expression and helping others feel comfortable. Cathy: I had shared in a video how I don't like to [...]

By |2016-01-05T09:42:01+00:00May 1, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|
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Mismatched or Different Sex Drives in a Relationship

When we're talking about issues of libido, we have to ask ourselves, if there've been any recent changes in ourselves, your lovers' lives that could be the cause of the decreased libido. The second thing to start looking at, then, is there something that's going on between you two relationship wise that you don't have matching libidos? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about [...]

By |2016-01-04T12:49:18+00:00April 22, 2015|Dating, Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|
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If You Want To Be More Powerful …How Can You Still Leave Space For Other People?

There's an assumption that, if you're powerful, then somehow you're not going to notice people. We tend to think that power is automatically reckless or the worry there is that it's going to be reckless. If you want to be a more powerful person, how can you do it without trampling other people, still being aware of other people and giving space for other people to have their needs and wants too? Join [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:37:28+00:00March 23, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|
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In The Mood For Connection… How Can You Invite Your Partner?

If you're in the mood to be really intimate, connected with your partner, not necessarily sexual, but just connected, present, and your partner's not in the mood, how can you start a conversation maybe to invite them to step into it with you? Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about this. Cathy: If you're in the mood to be really intimate, connected [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:39:51+00:00March 20, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|
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