Energy

When Does Taking Care Of Yourself Become Selfish or Hedonism?

Hedonism has gotten a bad slant, like people use the word to mean something negative. But looking for pleasure or happiness is not necessarily a bad thing. You need to be selfish in life - you actually need to take care of yourself first. Hear relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about when does taking care of yourself drop into selfishness or hedonism. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked, [...]

By |2015-12-23T12:33:20+00:00February 24, 2015|Body Image, Energy, Relationship Skills|
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When To Get In The Mood and When To Say No

What do you do when you're not in the mood for sex and your partner is? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to get yourself in the mood and when to say no. Cathy: What do you do when you're not in the mood and your partner is? Reid: In the mood for what? Cathy: Sex. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:50:15+00:00February 18, 2015|Energy, Sex Geeks|
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Tuning Into Touch: Increasing Sensation and Arousal

Want more spark in the bedroom? What to drive your partner wild? Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss Tuning Into Touch. Cathy: Tuning into Touch.  This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: And I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com.  Oh, oh, oh. Cathy: (Laughs) Reid: Everybody just clicked off because they were like, EW! Stop it! Stop it! Cathy: (Laughs) I love that you talk about [...]

By |2016-01-05T07:37:46+00:00June 30, 2014|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills|
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Backdoor Basics: Introducing Anal Sex To Your Relationship

Are you curious about anal sex? Would you like to explore this with your partner? Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss Backdoor Basics! Cathy: Hi everyone.  I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and asked if we could give some tips on introducing anal into the relationship. Reid: Woa!!!!  I just had to do [...]

By |2016-06-30T11:20:09+00:00June 29, 2014|Energy, Relationship Skills, Touch|
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Expectations and Agreements

Where do expectations get in the way, and how are they helpful? When do you want agreements and when are they too much work? Cathy: Hi everyone, I'm Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and I want to talk today about expectations versus agreements. Most of us are really good with expectations, we have them all the time. We were brought up in a certain culture, a certain set of social [...]

By |2016-01-06T10:15:45+00:00June 22, 2014|Dating, Energy, Relationship Skills|
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Can Mindfulness Increase Connection and Enjoyment?

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss how mindfulness can increase connection and enjoyment in relationships. Reid: Why are you pushing me? Quit hogging the camera. Cathy: Your big shoulder is on the way. Reid: That's not very mindful of you. So we stopped at mindfulness. Cathy: Yes. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. I'm Reid Mihalko from jackass.com. Cathy: No. [...]

By |2016-01-06T12:12:26+00:00August 22, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Energetic Sex: Mindfulness and Mental Presence To Heat Things Up

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss energetic sex, and how mindfulness can heat things up in the bedroom! Cathy: Hi everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com and this is Video 4. We don't know how many there are going to be. Cathy: It's a surprise. Reid: Energetic sex, we just keep coming. It's nuts. You were talking about [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:10:20+00:00August 19, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Energetic Sex: Being Present With Touch

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss energetic sex, and being present with touch to create the electric feeling. Reid: This is Video 3 of the Energetic Sex. Cathy: And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Yes, and this is our little wineglass from the last ones. If you haven't watched the first two, it will make a lot more sense [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:10:42+00:00August 16, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills|
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Energetic Sex: Tuning Into Energy and Finding Your Frequency

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about tuning into your "frequency" so you can connect more deeply. Reid: Hello, everyone this is a wine glass, or a water glass, half empty or half full. I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Thanks Reid. Reid: You're welcome. Cathy: Tell us about the wine glass. We want to know.  Reid: If you [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:11:03+00:00August 13, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills|
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Energetic Sex: What Is Pragmatic Tantra?

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss energetic sex, and how being aware of this can make connection more electric! Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid, can you tell us a little bit about energetic sex? You give a great workshop on it. Reid: Yes. Thank you for saying it was great. Energetic sex is something [...]

By |2016-04-14T11:46:42+00:00August 10, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills|
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