She Screamed After I Put My Dick In, What Should I Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yh0MK0hSZSM Cathy: So this might be somewhat trigerring question but I think it’s really important to answer. Someone wrote in and said I put my dick in a pussy and she screamed, what do I do when she says stop? And I think it’s so important to talk about the fact that a lot of people don’t know [...]
My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Have Sex With Me Anymore... What Do I Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrZsoBtD5Wk Cathy: How do I cope with knowing my girlfriend doesn’t want to be sexual with me anymore or she’s not sexually attracted to me? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and we love it when people send in questions. Cathy: Yeah. This person said I [...]
How To Tell Them That You're Only Into Casual Hook Up Without Offending Them? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MraJHn_s6s Cathy: What do you do if you’re into someone for a casual hook up but not for anything deeper and you’re not sure how to tell them without kind of making them feel bad or rejecting her or using the half-truth? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from [...]
When Should I Seek Medical Attention If Penetration Hurts? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVlLF2Y-7fI Cathy: When do you know if it’s time to see a doctor when penetration hurts? Someone wrote in and said if her partner goes to deep it really hurts, I feel like there’s a blockage or something. I can only handle 5-6 inches, is there something wrong? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.Reidaboutsex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http:// www.TheIntimacyDojo.com [...]
How Do You Not Disappoint Someone And Still Be Genuine To People? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_GhvuBVWGKs Cathy: How do you handle it if you’re a kind person and you don’t want to have other people be disappointed but you want to be authentic too? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Airlines lost my luggage and all I have with me is my tux so you [...]
What Should Sex Educators Do If Sex Organization and Conferences Don't Pay Presenters? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iZqtauD2vLo Cathy: Someone wrote in and said what about sex positive and kink organizations and conferences that don’t pay their presenters, what can we do about this as an educator? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: And http://www.SexGeekSummerCamp.com which is a business retreat for sex educators and I’m wearing my tux here with Cathy Vartuli [...]
How Can I Successfully Apply Reid's Difficult Conversation Formula? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yww6Dm0neUw Cathy: What do you do if you have Reid’s difficult conversation formula? You fill it all out, you love it and when it comes to the moment of actually using it you feel freeze. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReiAboutSex.com this is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: Just wear your tux and don’t say anything. Cathy: Well [...]
Creating More Sex Dates Even If You're In A Long Distance Relationship https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Urp1yhSJRTA Cathy: How can you create more sex date and phone play times when you’re in a long distance relationship this is Reid Mihalko http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: Why, you don’t remember after all this time? Reid: All the time. But you talk while I sext somebody. Cathy: The person [...]
I'm INCEL Because I Only Want to Date Women Who Can Reach My Very High Standards https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SyodX1KDnQs Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I’m 20 and I’m InCel, Involuntary Celibate because I’m only into girls that I’m attracted to and I can’t see myself with girls I’m not attracted to and goes on to add I have very stellar standards and I don’t want to lower my standards even though [...]
How To Trust Someone Again When They Cheated A Lot In The Past? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AI-AaN03zQM Cathy: Someone else wrote in and said they just stared opening up their relationship and her partner just met another girl which he likes which is just great, my only problem is she has a lot of trust issues because he cheated on her in the past and she notices that she did the trust [...]
