Flirting

How Do I Talk To My Kids About Consent?

How Do I Talk To My Kids About Consent? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KfgtnADbAYM Cathy: So how do you talk to your child about consent? I'm here with J.D aka Jen Devine from http://superstarhealtheducation.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ and J.D talks to children all the time about these kinds of topics and I love that you go out there and in especially in the Bay Area you're able to talk about these [...]

By |2017-09-25T00:58:44+00:00June 8, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Should I Talk To My Kids About Sex Even If They Don’t Want To?

Should I Talk To My Kids About Sex Even If They Don't Want To? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-dJtRggmeUQ Cathy: What if you want to be that cool sex-positive parent that talks to their kids about stuff and then your kid does not want to talk to you about sex, what do you do? I'm here with J.D aka Jen Devine from http://superstarhealtheducation.com/and I’m Cathy Vartuli https://theintimacydojo.com/ and I think that's a great like [...]

By |2017-09-25T00:55:07+00:00June 5, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Books On Race And Polyamory

Books On Race And Polyamory https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfxlGYD_OG8 Cathy: Are there any books good books out there on race and polyamory? I'm here with Kevin A. Patterson from http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/ I don't want to mess that up http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/ and I'm Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ and I hear that you were writing a book on race and poly and I'm really excited. Can you tell us about it? Kevin: Yeah, yeah. Definitely. So, last…..a [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:14:09+00:00June 2, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Barriers For People of Different Races To Enter Poly Relationships

Barriers For People of Different Races To Enter Poly Relationships Cathy: So what are the barriers to entry for people of different racist coming into poly. I'm here with Kevin A. Patterson from http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/. I'm Kathy virtually from https://theintimacydojo.com/. And I hear that you have an amazing book coming out called “Love’s not color blind” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9QFUXV_0oa0 Cathy: So what are the barriers to entry for people of different racist coming [...]

By |2017-09-25T00:40:04+00:00May 30, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What To Do If Someone Drinks My Beer Aside From My Partner?

What To Do If Someone Drinks My Beer Aside From My Partner? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wt7l6yq_uCE Reid: Alright. We're broadcasting from the beach with our windsock on our mic. Hopefully the sound is great. Cathy: Yes, hopefully. So, someone wrote in and said that they're in a poly relationship and one of the things they’d love to do is they love to share with….they share beers with their partner all the time. Reid: [...]

By |2017-09-25T00:35:55+00:00May 27, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Is Respect? How To Be Respectful When I’m Super Angry?

What Is Respect? How Can I Be Respectful When I’m Super Angry? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=txlqjbCRuP0 Cathy: Are we going live? Alright. So, someone wrote in and said what Reid: Who….who are you? Oh, wait no. We’ll do the question first. Go, go! From the beach. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said “what is respect and how do I be respectful even when I'm super angry like I'm in a rage?” This is [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:14:42+00:00May 24, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Is It Okay To Hijack A Play Partner At A Play Party?

Is It Okay To Hijack A Play Partner At A Play Party? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJvri6RjWW8 Cathy: Is it going to fall off? Reid: We're here at the beach. Enjoy the beach. What do we got Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/? I'm Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Cathy: So this….actually happened to me, I was at a play party and one of my lovers was playing with someone else who I’ve played with and I [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:17:12+00:00May 21, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Asking Your Partner To Wash The Sheets After He Had Sex With Others

Asking Your Partner To Wash The Sheets After He Had Sex With Others... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vziSSX14OfE Cathy: So my partner….someone wrote in and said “my partner is having a partner someone over to our house when….for date which is totally fine we've agreed on that but is it fair for me to ask him to wash the sheets after they have sex in our bed?” This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:18:25+00:00May 18, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Cathy And Reid Are Talking About Leadership and Self-Care

Cathy And Reid Are Talking About Leadership and Self-Care https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8fVpCYCzyUI Reid: Hello Facebook! It’s Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/. Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ Reid: And we've got sand castle things going on right behind us. We are in Monterey doing a work weekend recuperating from camp and this is uh this is a little Sex Ed business video because Cathy has been, been talking about leadership and self-care. So [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:18:57+00:00May 15, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Cathy And Reid’s Self-Care Weekend

Cathy And Reid's Self-Care Weekend https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UV97wpy7xOQ Reid: Uhm… Cathy: Are we live? Reid: Hello. I think we are. Hello Facebook. Reid Mihalko at http://reidaboutsex.com/. Cathy: Cathy Virtuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ Reid: So we have the ultimate microphone test got my microphone on my little wind suck on. Can it handle the ocean surf right next to us Cathy: In the wind. Reid: In the wind so Cathy: I think you should [...]

By |2017-09-25T00:02:21+00:00May 12, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|