Relationship Skills

I’m Gay or Bi, How Do I Have Sex With Men and Women Ethically?

I'm Gay or Bi, How Do I Have Sex With Men and Women Ethically? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61X_ETbCjH4 Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I'm a guy who has had sex with women for my entire life but I think I'm gay or bi. How do I ethically have sex with both men and women? Right now the women I'm truthful with reject me and I'm finding it hard to become more sexually [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:31:27+00:00March 19, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Do You Have A Great Idea In Designing Workshop But You’re Procrastinating?

Do You Have A Great Idea In Designing Workshop But You're Procrastinating? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pa73zjHtSGM Cathy: Have you ever had a great idea for a workshop but you kept procrastinating and struggling with it maybe because it meant so much to you, you're afraid you wouldn't get it right? This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ and I’m wearing my sex geek summer camp t-shirt which means this [...]

By |2017-09-22T04:53:15+00:00March 16, 2019|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Choices Can Affect Your Life?

How Choices Can Affect Your Life? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E0qOH3SKUe4 Monique: Look we're going to do lots of videos Peter: Stop beeping Monique: What’s your website? Cathy: It’s the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Monique: And you guys know where to find me http://www.whereintheworldismoniquedarling.com/ Peter: And I’m at http://www.awakenbodyandsoul.com/ Monique: This is Peter.   Cathy: A lot of people may not know. Monique: Happy Saturday, happy new year, and we thought that we'd come and talk about [...]

By |2017-09-22T04:39:49+00:00March 13, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can You Create More Joy And Creative Freedom In Your Life Right Now?

How Can You Create More Joy And Creative Freedom In Your Life Right Now? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SpMAEMUvDKM Peter: Greetings how can you create more joy and creative freedom in your life right now? Monique: I'm Monique darling Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Peter: I'm Peter Peterson from http://www.awakenbodyandsoul.com/ Monique: And we're super excited to be joining you today and asking all sorts of questions around freedom and free will and being [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:32:19+00:00March 10, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I Fell In Love With A Poly Person, How Long Should I Wait To Tell My Partner?

I Fell In Love With A Poly Person, How Long Should I Wait To Tell My Partner? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qD7p-Ha_nJU This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: So someone wrote in and said they fell in love with someone who's already in a poly relationship. They didn't mean to fall in love, it was not the partnership … Reid: It’s supposed to be casual Cathy: Is supposed [...]

By |2017-09-22T04:27:00+00:00March 7, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Find Transparent And Honest Poly Relationships?

How Do You Find Transparent And Honest Poly Relationships? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dnBuu8_kKXs Cathy: Someone wrote in with a question said. I don't know if you can answer this or not. But how do I find Poly people that know how to be transparent and honor and an honest. I've been wondering? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/   Cathy: It’s a great question.   Reid: Yeah, [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:32:45+00:00March 4, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What About Sexual Abuse In Men?

What About Sexual Abuse In Men? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uRm5-mPqeL0 Cathy: What about sexual abuse in men? I’m here with Jimanekia Eborn you can find her on https://www.facebook.com/JimmyEborn/ and then Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ thanks so much for being here Jimanekia. Jimanekia: Thank you for having me. Cathy: And I think there's so little visibility that in men boys being abused or raped. And a lot of people just like “oh that's [...]

By |2017-09-22T03:14:11+00:00March 1, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

How Can I Feel Comfortable In My Own Skin?

How Can I Feel Comfortable In My Own Skin? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fELGhfvao-g Cathy: How do you get comfortable enough in your own skin, to start fighting for others and standing up when you see injustice? This is Jimanekia Eborn http://www.facebook.com/JimmyEborn and I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ thanks for sharing this. Jimanekia: Thank you for having me. Um, being comfortable is something that is never comfortable. Cathy: Yes. Jimanekia: It's something you work [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:33:23+00:00February 26, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

What Does it Take to Stand Naked in the Rain?

What Does it Take to Stand Naked in the Rain? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kPbNbDABYNU Cathy: So, Reid at the recent http://sex10x.kajabi.com/sp/38725-improve-your-sexual-prowess-ten-fold you have a beautiful quote that I love and I want to talk about it a little more with you here because I think that our intrepid viewers might appreciate it I know you touched me. Reid: What is intrepid mean? Cathy: They’re like fearless and they’re willing to go in really [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:35:20+00:00February 23, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Are the Things that is Holding You Back from Sex?

What Are the Things that are Holding You Back from Sex? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oiz2_IieAUI Cathy: So we really did this great exercise at http://sex10x.kajabi.com/sp/38725-improve-your-sexual-prowess-ten-fold and I thought it would really be fun to share here. Reid: Okay, chance is I don’t remember it was. Cathy: I know and I’ll tell you Reid: Okay Cathy: And then you will explain it. Reid: Cathy did take good notes when I teach things. Cathy: Well, [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:35:37+00:00February 20, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|