Relationship Skills

I Love Her But I Think I’m Losing Her!

Cathy: We had someone write to us and say that he’s so in love with the woman he’s with and he feels like he’s losing her, and he wanted to know what to do. Do you have any suggestions? Reid: I do. I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: And here is our advice. You go first. Cathy: I go first? Reid: Yeah. Cathy: Part of it depends on why do you [...]

By |2016-01-07T13:42:35+00:00July 22, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Easing Re-entry and Con Drop

Surviving Con Drop (post-Conference Drop) with style can make life so much easier, and let you keep that post-conference glow. Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Click here for Reid's Article: The Morning After: The Art of Surviving Workshops, Retreats and Conferences. Cathy: Hi, I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com, from somewhere. Cathy: Do you want to start again? Reid: Something that has [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:40:23+00:00July 16, 2014|Relationship Skills|

How Can You Tease and Build Anticipation?

Would you like to be better at teasing and building anticipation? It can make everything from flirting to marketing more fun! Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Cathy:  Would you like to be better at teasing and building anticipation? Reid:  Hm? What? Yes. Yes! I want to be better at that. Cathy:  This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Reid:  And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:  [...]

By |2016-01-06T07:56:59+00:00July 14, 2014|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Touch|

Using Presence and Focus To “Listen To The Room”

Listening To The Room", hearing what the group or audience wants, how they're responding and how connected they are, can make an event go smoothly and easily, leaving enthusiastic and educated attendees! Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share how to Listen To A Room! Cathy:  Have you ever wanted to listen to a room? It could be really useful when you're leading a workshop or just hanging [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:41:42+00:00July 12, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Finding Ways To Flirt When You’re Shy

Flirting can be fun and playful...but if you're shy, it can feel impossible! Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share how to flirt when you're shy! Cathy: We've done a video on flirting before but I've noticed that ... Reid: No we didn't. Cathy: Yes we did. Reid: No we didn't. Oh I touched your boob. Cathy: My problem is I get very shy when I'm flirting with someone I actually [...]

By |2018-09-23T20:35:09+00:00July 10, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills|

5 Break Up Tips: Making Breaking Up Easier To Do

How can you make breaking up easier? How can you support yourself through the process? Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss making breaking up easier! Cathy: Hi, everyone. Breakups are pretty hard. What are five ways you can make breakups easier on yourself? Reid: Tune in now. We will tell you as we pull the answers out of our butts. I'm Reid Mihalko from [...]

By |2016-01-19T12:36:16+00:00July 2, 2014|Relationship Skills, Trauma|

Tuning Into Touch: Increasing Sensation and Arousal

Want more spark in the bedroom? What to drive your partner wild? Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss Tuning Into Touch. Cathy: Tuning into Touch.  This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: And I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com.  Oh, oh, oh. Cathy: (Laughs) Reid: Everybody just clicked off because they were like, EW! Stop it! Stop it! Cathy: (Laughs) I love that you talk about [...]

By |2016-01-05T07:37:46+00:00June 30, 2014|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

I Want To Have A Threesome…What Do I Do?

Cathy: We had someone ask us- you're such a goof-ball. We had someone ask us, "Who do I or who to approach for a threesome and how to talk to them about it?" I know someone who runs a class on that. I thought we'd ask you. Reid: Yeah, just approach me. Next question. Cathy: How do you identify people that might be good for a threesome, and how do you invite them [...]

By |2016-01-06T08:37:36+00:00June 29, 2014|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Backdoor Basics: Introducing Anal Sex To Your Relationship

Are you curious about anal sex? Would you like to explore this with your partner? Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss Backdoor Basics! Cathy: Hi everyone.  I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and asked if we could give some tips on introducing anal into the relationship. Reid: Woa!!!!  I just had to do [...]

By |2016-06-30T11:20:09+00:00June 29, 2014|Energy, Relationship Skills, Touch|

Break Up Tips To Make Things Easier For Your Ex

You cared enough to date them. How can you make things easier for your ex during and after a break up? Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they discuss making breaking up easier! Cathy: How can you make breakups easier for your ex? Reid: How can you make breakups easier? Cathy: Usually it's someone you cared about enough at least to be in a relationship with.  So, [...]

By |2016-01-05T10:12:21+00:00June 27, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills, Shame|
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