How To Trust Someone Again When They Cheated A Lot In The Past? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AI-AaN03zQM Cathy: Someone else wrote in and said they just stared opening up their relationship and her partner just met another girl which he likes which is just great, my only problem is she has a lot of trust issues because he cheated on her in the past and she notices that she did the trust [...]
How Do You Deal With Status, Standards and How Society Tells Us Who We're Attracted To? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=drCJN6OGOWc Reid: In the last video were talking about status and standards and how society can fuck with us around like who we’re attracted to and I’m curious about what Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com has to say about how you figured out how to untangle those things? I’m Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutsex.com you [...]
Where Do I Go To Find Kinky Sexy Sex Geeks? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPJTwEpLlWE Cathy: Where do you find sexy, kinky, sex geeks? Reid: Look where the tuxes are that’s where you’ll find them. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com my luggage got lost this morning and all I had was my suit bag which had my tux in it so were getting tuxy. [...]
How To Make Sure Your Date Is Aware That You're Not Out Poly or Kinky Because of Work or Kids https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c62edJXqpYs Cathy: If you’re poly and you’re dating, are there good ways to make sure that people you’re dating are aware that you’re not coming out because of work or kids? Reid: I really thought you’d say “If you’re poly and dating clap your hands” (claps his hands). [...]
Is It True That Men Don't Have To Masturbate and Their Partners Should Do It For Them? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uoDOCuFpDCs Cathy: In response to our video in masturbation someone wrote in and says the guy doesn’t have to masturbate his wife or girlfriend can do if or him. He should never have to jerk off if he has a woman and if he has a foot fetish, she can use her sexy [...]
You're In A Mono/Poly Relationship And The Poly Partner Is In Love with Someone Else, What To Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=umk8J-9r-MQ Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, we’re in a mono/poly relationship, the woman is monogamous and her partner is poly and he’s just starting out to date other people, they just opened up the relationship for him and he’s had a couple of dates but the dates didn’t really [...]
How To Avoid Premature Connection by Having Multiple Partners How to find play partners so you can have multiple lovers and avoid connecting too deeply too soon? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-_8kWgpiAg Cathy: Someone wrote in and said “Hi Reid! I’m working my way through the why are people into that podcast and came across your episode. You suggested getting multiple partners to avoid developing premature feelings to anyone and said something along the [...]
Is it really possible to fall in love with more than one person at a time? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-W_JVLYiX8 Cathy: Can you really fall in love with more than one person at a time? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: And we talk about poly a lot but we had someone write in really sweet beautiful question about, you were talking about your slut [...]
How to run an awesome positive play party? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lWsfZ4SCadQ Cathy: How do you run a great sex positive play party? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com who’s thrown a bunch of parties. Reid: Like a lot at this point, very many. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com who’s thrown fewer than I but still an impressive note. Cathy: So Reid I really loved how you throw play parties and I’ve been asking in [...]
How to ask permission to join in a cuddle party or orgy? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NbumcX12emk Cathy: We did a video on intimacy and ease of talking to people, everyone in a pile at a cuddle party or play party getting consent for joining in and someone wrote back and said, I realize, what a great idea, I really appreciate you guys doing a video and I’m not really been participating, I realize [...]
