Sex Geeks

What Is Poly Role Models And How Could It Help Poly People? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HN_TuElWQCs Cathy: Make sure this is going good. Okay. So alright what is Poly Role Models and how could it help you? I'm here with Kevin A. Patterson from http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/ and I'm Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ and Kevin thanks so much for being here. Kevin: Yeah. Thanks for….thanks for taking the time for having me on. Cathy: Oh, [...]

How Do I Talk To My Kids About Consent? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KfgtnADbAYM Cathy: So how do you talk to your child about consent? I'm here with J.D aka Jen Devine from http://superstarhealtheducation.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ and J.D talks to children all the time about these kinds of topics and I love that you go out there and in especially in the Bay Area you're able to talk about these [...]

Should I Talk To My Kids About Sex Even If They Don't Want To? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-dJtRggmeUQ Cathy: What if you want to be that cool sex-positive parent that talks to their kids about stuff and then your kid does not want to talk to you about sex, what do you do? I'm here with J.D aka Jen Devine from http://superstarhealtheducation.com/and I’m Cathy Vartuli https://theintimacydojo.com/ and I think that's a great like [...]

Books On Race And Polyamory https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfxlGYD_OG8 Cathy: Are there any books good books out there on race and polyamory? I'm here with Kevin A. Patterson from http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/ I don't want to mess that up http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/ and I'm Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ and I hear that you were writing a book on race and poly and I'm really excited. Can you tell us about it? Kevin: Yeah, yeah. Definitely. So, last…..a [...]

Barriers For People of Different Races To Enter Poly Relationships Cathy: So what are the barriers to entry for people of different racist coming into poly. I'm here with Kevin A. Patterson from http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/. I'm Kathy virtually from https://theintimacydojo.com/. And I hear that you have an amazing book coming out called “Love’s not color blind” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9QFUXV_0oa0 Cathy: So what are the barriers to entry for people of different racist coming [...]

What To Do If Someone Drinks My Beer Aside From My Partner? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wt7l6yq_uCE Reid: Alright. We're broadcasting from the beach with our windsock on our mic. Hopefully the sound is great. Cathy: Yes, hopefully. So, someone wrote in and said that they're in a poly relationship and one of the things they’d love to do is they love to share with….they share beers with their partner all the time. Reid: [...]

What Is Respect? How Can I Be Respectful When I’m Super Angry? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=txlqjbCRuP0 Cathy: Are we going live? Alright. So, someone wrote in and said what Reid: Who….who are you? Oh, wait no. We’ll do the question first. Go, go! From the beach. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said “what is respect and how do I be respectful even when I'm super angry like I'm in a rage?” This is [...]

Is It Okay To Hijack A Play Partner At A Play Party? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJvri6RjWW8 Cathy: Is it going to fall off? Reid: We're here at the beach. Enjoy the beach. What do we got Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/? I'm Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Cathy: So this….actually happened to me, I was at a play party and one of my lovers was playing with someone else who I’ve played with and I [...]

Asking Your Partner To Wash The Sheets After He Had Sex With Others... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vziSSX14OfE Cathy: So my partner….someone wrote in and said “my partner is having a partner someone over to our house when….for date which is totally fine we've agreed on that but is it fair for me to ask him to wash the sheets after they have sex in our bed?” This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: [...]