Sex Geeks

What Is The Difference Between Transgender And Transgendered?

What Is The Difference Between Transgender And Transgendered? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_tOBXjxaQ8Q Cathy: What’s the difference between transgender and transgendered? Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Okay. I'm going to, I didn’t want to do this video at first and now I do want to do this video. But I'm just going to say I'm not the person who you should be giving anyone’s’ answer to this question. [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:46:46+00:00November 13, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Are Conscious Breakups And How Do You Deal One?

What Are Conscious Breakups And How Do You Deal One? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BKltWAQIO5s Cathy: What are conscious breakups and how do you deal with one? Dan: That’s a really good question Cathy: This is Dan Powers from http://www.beyondthebedroomevents.com/ Dan: And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And I'm so glad you're here we're talking about this. A lot of people we were just talking about how it's like most people think [...]

By |2017-09-19T03:32:05+00:00November 10, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When Do You Initiate The Safer Sex Elevator Speech Especially With Oral Herpes?

When Do You Initiate The Safer Sex Elevator Speech Especially With Oral Herpes? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mp93kvDFR3Y Cathy: I'm curious about, when to initiate the http://reidaboutsex.com/safersexelevatorspeech/? It sounds like it comes before kissing especially for including oral herpes in this discussion but I don't usually talk about sex until I know someone's interested which I frequently find out by kissing them. I won't like the idea and want to incorporate it but not [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:47:17+00:00November 7, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Shy At A Play Party, What Do You Do?

Shy At A Play Party, What Do You Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HjLLwqb0LJw Reid: You’re shy and you’re at a play party. What do you do? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: I am and this is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: And for those of you who are just joining us, play party is what the what the kids are calling a newfangled orgy these orgy these days, so you’re at [...]

By |2017-09-19T03:17:50+00:00November 4, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Know If A Poly Relationship Is For You?

How Do You Know If A Poly Relationship Is For You? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FU_dAwWxp5o Cathy: How do you know if a poly relationship will work for you? This is Dan Powers from http://www.beyondthebedroomevents.com/ Dan: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And my cat making a cameo. Dan: Again. Cathy: Again, She’s very popular now. Dan: She got her name in the credits. Cathy: And now so now we can get over. [...]

By |2017-09-19T03:10:39+00:00November 1, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Find Transparent And Honest Poly Relationship?

How Do You Find Transparent And Honest Poly Relationship? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dnBuu8_kKXs Cathy: Someone wrote in with a question said. I don't know if you can answer this or not. But how do I find Poly people that know how to be transparent and honor and an honest. I've been wondering? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/   Cathy: It’s a great question.   Reid: Yeah, [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:47:47+00:00October 30, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Clear Space For Sex?

How Do You Clear Space For Sex? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8lMgz5jCYAA Cathy: How do you clear space for sex? This is Dan Powers from http://www.beyondthebedroomevents.com/ Dan: And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And when we go in we may have an appointment for like maybe scheduled a sex date or we're just getting sexy with our partner all of a sudden we have we want to be to be really present [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:48:09+00:00October 27, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

I Have Orgasm When I’m Masturbating but It’s Hard to Have It With My Partner! Any Advice?

I Have Orgasm When I’m Masturbating but It's Hard to Have It With My Partner! Any Advice? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2XMxtzSYpoo   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said that. I have tons of orgasms when I'm by myself masturbating. But having orgasms with my partner is challenging. I’d love to hear what you have to say about that. And how can I go about having more orgasms with my partners? Cathy: This is [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:48:37+00:00October 24, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

I Want To Go To a Play Party But My Partner Doesn’t, What Should I Do?

I Want To Go To a Play Party But My Partner Doesn't, What Should I Do? This is Dan Powers from http://www.beyondthebedroom.com/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JeVj8wkZHjk Dan: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Dan: Do you want to go to a play party but your partner doesn't can you handle that? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: Dan Powers from http://www.beyondthebedroom.com/that's a great question. Because it's important their be consent, but it's [...]

By |2017-09-19T02:52:27+00:00October 21, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I Fell In Love With A Poly Person, How Long Should I Wait To Tell My Partner About This?

I Fell In Love With A Poly Person, How Long Should I Wait To Tell My Partner About This? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qD7p-Ha_nJU Cathy: So, someone wrote in and said they fell in love with someone who's already in a poly relationship. They didn't mean to fall in love it was not but the partner should not. Reid: It is supposed to be casual. Cathy: And they don't know, the partner doesn't know [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:49:35+00:00October 18, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|