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Does Quality of Touch Matter?

Does Quality of Touch Matter? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkPkTtDcECY Cathy: Does quality of touch matters when you’re on a date or hooking up? I’m Cathy Vartuli from from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Yoni: I’m Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com Liz: I’m Doctor Liz from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com Caroline: I’m Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com Sexy Librarian: I’m also the talking librarian who is off screen. Liz: She’s a sexy librarian. Cathy: Yes. Caroline: Sexy, Sparkly librarian. Liz: So sparkly. So [...]

By |2017-08-28T18:03:02+00:00April 3, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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How Can You Own Your Own Sexuality? Part II With Jet Appling

How Can You Own Your Own Sexuality? Part II With Jet Appling https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Fj986XaKDE   Cathy: Have you wondered how to own your own sexuality? I’m here with Jet Appling from http://www.JetNoirMuse.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  And Jet, you’re so amazing on stage and I know you’ve dance all you you were just in Europe. You’re, you just seem so natural and authentic when you move and you own who [...]

By |2017-08-28T17:54:40+00:00March 31, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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What About Consent? With Jet Appling

What About Consent? With Jet Appling https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L6nNaWtLxzs Cathy: Have you wondered about consent? I’m here with Jet Appling from http://www.JetNoirMuse.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com  and Jet you we’re talking a little earlier about consent and you were talking about how when you’re on stage, how you want consent from people before you don’t scrub them and flip them around, what other things do you have in there that [...]

By |2017-08-28T17:23:12+00:00March 28, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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What Can You Do If Someone Misuses “Feminism” For Their Own Agenda? (new w/ outro)

What Can You Do If Someone Misuses "Feminism" For Their Own Agenda? (new w/ outro) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RW1TBHUFVNU   Jet: I heard on  Facebook where they were talking about this new trend in fuck boy feminism where it’s basically some asshole misusing the label feminist or feminism in order to further their own agenda and they were manifesting it or this one example I should say this guy I guess he’s into [...]

By |2017-08-28T17:17:41+00:00March 25, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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What Are Bottom Lines, How Do You Know What They Are and Should You Share Them With Your Partner?

What Are Bottom Lines, How Do You Know What They Are and Should You Share Them With Your Partner? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo, Hunter Riley manager of Self Serve Toys and we're in Self Serve Toys right now filming. Your website is https://HunterRileySexEducation.com/. Matie Fricker from http://SelfServeToys.com/. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DM5OQ5ATDmM   Cathy: So, we're just shooting a video about how to clean up messes and maybe brought up bottom line so we [...]

By |2017-08-28T16:35:49+00:00March 22, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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They Say I’m Doing Poly Wrong.. What Should I Do?

They Say I'm Doing Poly Wrong.. What Should I Do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kDi6uVts238&feature=youtu.be Cathy: What do you do if you're shame for not being poly enough or doing poly wrong? This is Matie Fricker from http://www.SelfServeToys.com/. Hunter Riley who works at Self-Serve and has http://www.HunterRileySexEducation.com/ and I am Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. So what have you noticed about people being poly-shamed? Matie: It happened to me, maybe [...]

By |2017-08-28T16:25:34+00:00March 19, 2018|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|
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Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube?

Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMj0kaNFxRg Cathy: If I use my own saliva, can I give myself herpes? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: What a great question. Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: So this person wrote in that they were using their own saliva as lube and they have Herpes 1, [...]

By |2017-08-28T16:16:23+00:00March 16, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma, Uncategorized|
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I Can’t Orgasm With A Condom On – Help!

I Can't Orgasm With A Condom On - Help! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZRdswttC_s&feature=youtu.be   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said I’m really, I’ve never been able to cum while wearing a condom during sex. I’m trying to be safer but I feel like it’s almost like a waste of time. I’ve tried masturbating with a condom too, nothing works. I don’t orgasm with a condom [...]

By |2017-08-28T16:01:39+00:00March 13, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed?

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a5gW8sfdc40&feature=youtu.be Cathy: So someone wrote in and asked what are some techniques and ways I can please multiple partners if I’m a swinger or a poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Get them other lovers and partners. Cathy: I think they mean in the moment you have multiple lovers [...]

By |2017-08-28T15:53:52+00:00March 10, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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How Do You Work With People Who Can’t Handle Rejection?

How Do You Work With People Who Can't Handle Rejection? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BucyfxTE9nk&feature=youtu.be Reid: Video number 4 here in a series because we’re on a roll. How to handle or how to work with people who when they make a request in this case around sex, you feel like they can’t take a no gracefully or that they’re going to [...]

By |2017-08-28T15:41:21+00:00March 7, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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