The Intimacy Dojo Blog

How Do You Date If You’re Disabled? Tips For Getting Out There!

How Do You Date If You're Disabled? Tips For Getting Out There! If you have disabilities, are there tips on how to date? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robyn Wilson Beatty from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XyIIMGpAsVs Cathy: How do you date if you're disabled? I’m here with Robin Wilson-Beattie Robin: Hi! Cathy: from @sexAbled on twitter and I’m Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ and Robin you're kind of an expert [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:25:30+00:00April 12, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do I Explain To My Child About Abuses That People Experience In The World?

How Do I Explain To My Child About Abuses That People Experience In The World? Find out how with JD aka Jen Devine with http://SuperStarHealthEducation.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=obUdNfScnuU Jen: I’m looking at the camera. Cathy: I know. Jen: Hi! Cathy: And I keep talking to you. Jen: I know I'm like hi! I don't think I look very much over there but hey okay. Cathy: How do you know how to talk [...]

By |2017-09-24T23:01:51+00:00April 9, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Cathy Vartuli and Jen Devine Answered Some Sex-Related Questions of Students!

Cathy Vartuli and Jen Devine Answered Some Sex-Related Questions from Students! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aqQOdOSRTv8 Cathy: I'm here with J.D Jen Devine from http://superstarhealtheducation.com/ and I'm Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ and we're here with the super box of…of fun questions that Jen has gotten from different…..different students and they're…..they're beautiful, they're heart touching and some of them are very cute. So do you want to share the next question? Jen: Okay, what if [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:25:54+00:00April 6, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

At A Play Party But Not Playing?

At A Play Party But Not Playing? Ever wondered if you should play at a play party? With Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Euz2k1qM-fE Dr. Yoni: We're at a play party but we're not playing, what the hell? Hi everyone! I'm Dr. Yoni Alkan from https://www.elementsofsexuality.com/ Cathy: And I’m Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ and play parties can be really hard Dr. Yoni: Yeah. Cathy: It can [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:28:19+00:00April 3, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Handle Pressures and Insecurities As A Plus-Sized Woman?

How Do You Handle Pressures and Insecurities As A Plus-Sized Woman? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xF_mrVQwvb8 Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, “It would have been nice it would be nice to hear from Reid about any pressures he might feel about living up to expectations because on the surface he fits them all of what society deems attractive and his partners may have preconceived notions of how that applies to relationships/sex with [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:29:53+00:00March 31, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

If You Feel Shame For Needing Anything, How Do You Identify Your Needs?

If You Feel Shame For Needing Anything, How Do You Identify Your Needs? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tu0gVCUPm5U Cathy: Someone wrote it and said, “How do you go about finding out what your specific needs are when you feel ashamed for needing things at all from anybody else? For example I don't feel comfortable with asking for a glass of water while visiting your friend much as asking someone to listen to me or [...]

By |2017-09-24T22:39:43+00:00March 28, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

As A Ciswoman, How Do You Flirt With Other Women Easily?

As A Ciswoman, How Do You Flirt With Other Women Easily? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lPGb7iKOchs Cathy: We have something from one of our....our fans out there and I love that they write in Reid: We have fans? Cathy: Yeah. No, they said they’re our fan Reid: Oh my, they’re still our fan? Cathy: Yeah. First of all, congratulations I’ve been watching all of your videos and I love them and especially it's like [...]

By |2017-09-24T22:35:14+00:00March 25, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do I Communicate With My Audience Clearly About My Niche, Offerings and Pricing

How Do I Communicate With My Audience Clearly About My Niche, Offerings and Pricing https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94cnmmJCGcI Cathy: Another loyal viewer wrote in and said, “I'm really interested in how....how do I clarify my niche? How do I language and target my audience and how do I create and price my offerings in a way that doesn't shoot me in the foot?” Reid: This looks like a job for a sex geek [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:30:42+00:00March 22, 2019|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Filling Your Tanks

Filling Your Tanks: When our tanks are empty, or we haven’t gotten needs met in a long time, it’s hard to feel grounded or to hear no! How can you fill your tanks up, and get your needs met? Just like you wouldn’t go to a fancy dinner so hungry that you start eating off everyone’s plates with your hands, you can get your tanks filled other ways! Get or [...]

By |2019-03-19T21:39:44+00:00March 19, 2019|Uncategorized|