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Can A Girl Get Satisfied If The Man Didn’t Ejaculate?

Can A Girl Get Satisfied If The Man Didn't Ejaculate? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nljTTQ-RkBI Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, can a girl get satisfied if the man doesn’t ejaculate? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and we love it when you write in. Cathy: Yeah, Thanks. Reid: And leave comments and if you're leaving them on YouTube is not your thing, you can always email Cathy@TheIntimacyDojo.com that’s [...]

By |2017-09-22T00:38:42+00:00December 31, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Uncategorized|

What Are Some Thoughts About Polyamorous Relationships?

What Are Some Thoughts About Polyamorous Relationships? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hp7UuNndLgY Cathy: If you’re merging household and determining compatibility, what are some thoughts about poly styles and goals to talk about with the partners that are merging? We want to have a really peaceful powerful group as we merge our polycules. Reid: Polycules. Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: Reid Mihalko from https://www.ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Hmmm. Cathy: I mean, can be challenging because you get [...]

By |2017-09-19T05:29:45+00:00December 28, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Get Invited To A Play Party?

How Do You Get Invited To A Play Party? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iy6sW6l3VrI Cathy: So how do you get invited to a play party? This is Reid Mihalko from https://www.ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: Yeah. And Reid so if you wonder about play party you’re like you know, wanting to go check it out, how do you get invited? Reid: Know somebody who’s doing one, I guess. Cathy: Yes. [...]

By |2017-09-19T05:16:27+00:00December 25, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I’m Jealous Of Other Women, What Should I Do?

I'm Jealous Of Other Women, What Should I Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8OfTUjf3NHM Cathy: A woman wrote it and said, how do you deal with being overly jealous towards other woman? This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/   Cathy: It’s a right question. Thank you so much for writing in. I think often we try to hide our jealousy because we're taught that good people aren’t jealous [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:43:30+00:00December 22, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I Don’t Feel Good Enough About Myself, What Should I Do ?

I Don't Feel Good Enough About Myself, What Should I Do ? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T2Q7-grASFg Cathy: Someone wrote, oh. You want to finish picking your teeth? Reid: No, I’m good. Oh! Oh! We started. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I really been trying really hard to be a good fit for someone else because I don't feel good enough about myself when that doesn't work I feel devastated. I don't feel [...]

By |2017-09-19T05:04:01+00:00December 19, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

How Can I Overcome Dating Anxiety ?

How Can I Overcome Dating Anxiety ? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Y9EJFTdwpw Cathy: Someone wrote in and said how can I lessen of fear of dating if nothing seems to be working for me? I want to date because the more I get out, the easier it gets. But it’s hard to take a lot of losses one after the other. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:56:59+00:00December 16, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

How To Know If You’re Moving Too Fast In a Relationship?

How To Know If You're Moving Too Fast In a Relationship? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpizxwsBOEc Cathy: How do you know if you're moving ahead in good speed or pushing yourself a little too fast? This is Reid Mihalko for http://reidaboutsex.com/ hey   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ and what?   Cathy: So we're just we just   Reid: Too fast in what? Tell me!   Cathy: Sorry guys. He had too much caffeine [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:52:21+00:00December 13, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I’m Having A Hard Time Dating People I’m Interested In, What Should I Do?

I'm Having A Hard Time Dating People I'm Interested In, What Should I Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I4mXAczRYtM Reid: Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I'm having a hard time dating because I get really messed up when I'm interested into someone. I'm usually okay for the first couple weeks but then, either I ended up clinging or I want to run away because. [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:44:10+00:00December 10, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

What Is Voyeurism?

What Is Voyeurism https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r8Qe_OiFAic Cathy: Reid at a recently play party you shared something about voyeurism. That I thought was really powerful I was wondering if you’d share it for the camera. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy, what is a play party? Cathy: A play party is basically an orgy. It’s a space where people can go and have sex or watch that [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:40:57+00:00December 7, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

What Do You Do If A Condom Gets Stuck Inside?

What Do You Do If A Condom Gets Stuck Inside? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jrotsEG8hxc Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, if the condom falls off inside of a woman or man can you feel it? And will it come out on its own? What do we do? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ well I have never had a condom fall off in me. I've had condoms fall [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:34:09+00:00December 4, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|