The Intimacy Dojo Blog

What To Wear In A Play Party?

What To Wear In A Play Party? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNjCKIH2KB8   Cathy: What do I wear to a play party? This is Reid Mihalko from about http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And a lot people wonder if what do they wear if they go to a play party Reid: Play party being the new-fangled lingo for an orgy basically. Cathy: Yeah and different play parties are run differently. [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:27:14+00:00December 1, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Best Places For An Orgy

Best Places For An Orgy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=osXYk8SKd9Y Cathy: Someone wrote in to you Reid and said, Hello I found out about you from reading Neil Strauss’s The Truth. I’ve thrown my own play parties before and even intended a few but I wanted to know where I can find more places. Any help would be great. I look forward to going or running in your event soon. Reid: Oh, cool! Thanks [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:45:08+00:00November 28, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Should I Bring When I Go To A Play Party?

What Should I Bring When I Go To A Play Party? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GdUBSHvawk Cathy: What should I bring when I go to a play Party? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ What do you bring Cathy? Cathy: Uhmmm…. I usually … Reid; Wait a minute! Is a Play party an Orgy? Cathy: Yes. I was brought up to be very polite. So I almost always ask [...]

By |2017-09-19T04:15:05+00:00November 25, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Ejaculation Problem: I Can’t Orgasm From Masturbation

Ejaculation Problem: I Can't Orgasm From Masturbation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWqCV2Hpclc Cathy: I have a very weird lasting problem I’d love your help with.Cathy: I have a very weird lasting problem I’d love your help with. Reid: What is it Cathy? Tell me. Cathy: I have many problems with. This is from one of our viewers. Reid: What is it? tell me. Cathy: For some reason. He only Climax with dream Sex. He’s [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:45:36+00:00November 22, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When You Are Too Tired For Sex: A Simple Solution

When You Are Too Tired For Sex: A Simple Solution https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XgFh0a2oST4 Cathy: What do you do when you have conflicting needs Like your really tired but you also like to have sex? Dan: I’d go to sleep Cathy: This is Dan Powers from http://www.beyondthebedroomevents.com/ Dan: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And it can be challenging like there I know, there's time when I'm hungry or tired or I'm horny or [...]

By |2017-09-19T03:59:01+00:00November 19, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Can You Have An Open Relationship If You Are Married?

Can You Have An Open Relationship If You Are Married? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DT24G2UmUtI Cathy: And Dan Powers from http://www.beyondthebedroomevents.com/ Cathy: Can you have an open relationship if you're married? Dan: Yes! Cathy: This is Dan Powers from http://www.beyondthebedroom.com/ Dan: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: yeah I love that people ask these questions because some people don't know. It’s like wait I heard you’re suppose to… Dan: marriage is only one [...]

By |2017-09-19T03:49:29+00:00November 16, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Is The Difference Between Transgender And Transgendered?

What Is The Difference Between Transgender And Transgendered? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_tOBXjxaQ8Q Cathy: What’s the difference between transgender and transgendered? Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Okay. I'm going to, I didn’t want to do this video at first and now I do want to do this video. But I'm just going to say I'm not the person who you should be giving anyone’s’ answer to this question. [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:46:46+00:00November 13, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Are Conscious Breakups And How Do You Deal One?

What Are Conscious Breakups And How Do You Deal One? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BKltWAQIO5s Cathy: What are conscious breakups and how do you deal with one? Dan: That’s a really good question Cathy: This is Dan Powers from http://www.beyondthebedroomevents.com/ Dan: And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And I'm so glad you're here we're talking about this. A lot of people we were just talking about how it's like most people think [...]

By |2017-09-19T03:32:05+00:00November 10, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When Do You Initiate The Safer Sex Elevator Speech Especially With Oral Herpes?

When Do You Initiate The Safer Sex Elevator Speech Especially With Oral Herpes? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mp93kvDFR3Y Cathy: I'm curious about, when to initiate the http://reidaboutsex.com/safersexelevatorspeech/? It sounds like it comes before kissing especially for including oral herpes in this discussion but I don't usually talk about sex until I know someone's interested which I frequently find out by kissing them. I won't like the idea and want to incorporate it but not [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:47:17+00:00November 7, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Shy At A Play Party, What Do You Do?

Shy At A Play Party, What Do You Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HjLLwqb0LJw Reid: You’re shy and you’re at a play party. What do you do? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: I am and this is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: And for those of you who are just joining us, play party is what the what the kids are calling a newfangled orgy these orgy these days, so you’re at [...]

By |2017-09-19T03:17:50+00:00November 4, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|