Body Image

What Do You Do When Someone Says Everything Is Fine (In Bed) But They Don’t Mean It?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAxRBMtFVxA Cathy: Okay. So someone write in and said I come from Asia and realized that what I’m sharing is trembles cultures, people will say everything is fine, when they don’t really mean it, so she says, I’ve had sexual partners who I, they report that they love our connection, interaction with regular partners and I asked them to let me know if anything’s uncomfortable or if everything feels good…they [...]

By |2017-05-10T12:45:33+00:00November 19, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Delivery, Energy, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch|
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How Do I Stop Myself From “Future Tripping”?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QIUxn94M9c Cathy: How do I stop myself when I’m future tripping for example, my primary partner doesn’t call or text me back in a few hours I start feeling like I’m not important to him anymore therefore we’re gonna break up, etc. I take these things too far. Reid: I think I like to get myself back to the future too. Cathy: Do you have any banana pills? Reid: I [...]

By |2017-05-10T12:38:24+00:00November 16, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|
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We’re From Different Countries and Don’t Speak Each Other’s Languages? Is Our Relationship Doomed?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qfIkAP4UfA Cathy: So, are you ready now? Reid: Ready now. Cathy: So, one of our viewers said “I’m travelling in Thailand right now and I have made a relationship with a wonderful girl here. We’ve spent a couple of weeks together and have had a great time, but she knows minimal English and I know very minimal Thai. I’d like to learn Thai and she wants to learn English. But [...]

By |2017-05-10T12:23:05+00:00November 13, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Does Status and Gender Matter? Do Women “Settle” If They Date Someone Of Equal Status?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ISjsvYAlmVc Cathy: Someone wrote in and said that they are curious about the current state of this person mentioned Japan and US where he saw a huge gap in the mentality of women towards men. Making most women on the same level as men in terms of looks, money and lifestyle, think they are better in settling down if they get together with a man of equal status. He wanted [...]

By |2017-05-09T14:09:46+00:00November 10, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Delivery, Energy, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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Will Strong Vibrators Numb You Out?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWHryt9Y--Y Reid: Vibrators! Specifically the Sybian, it’s kind of like a Cadillac or John Deer tractors of vibrators the one that you sit on. Can it numb you out? Can it numb your stuff out? Can it harm you? I’m Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Hmmm… So, for transparency Sybian. I’m friends with many of the people at that company. Cathy: They are wonderful [...]

By |2017-05-09T13:56:41+00:00November 7, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Delivery, Energy, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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Will Herpes Ruin Your Life?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4aXDcNnM3R4 Cathy: So we have number of videos on Herpes and how to deal with it what is safe or safer? And we have a number of comments come back about it as well and there seems to be a lot of fear in the general culture around herpes and we have some people comment, some people said thank you so much for sharing this and normalize which one of [...]

By |2017-05-09T13:47:07+00:00November 4, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|
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Is It Impractical To Ask Everyone In A Cuddle Or Play Pile For Consent?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Ahfk09maeE Cathy: Question: When discussing consent in a workshop someone asked, “How do you respond to someone claiming that it’s impractical to ask every participant for consent in a cuddle or fuck pile? Thanks in advance.” Reid: Yes, so… Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: Oh, my god! I just wanna answer this! Cathy Vartuli from https://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: It’s a great question. Reid: Yeah, the impractical is an interesting situation [...]

By |2017-05-09T13:29:03+00:00October 29, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Energy, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch|
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How Should Ejaculate Come Out When I Come? Should It Spurt Or Drip?

Wondering how cum should come out during orgasm for a penis owner? Find out with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ungf18nyMGs Cathy: When you ejaculate, as, if with a penis owner, how was the sperm supposed to come out? Is this supposed to launch like a rocket or is this supposed to leak out? Reid: Excellent question, this is Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: And [...]

By |2017-05-09T13:29:55+00:00October 26, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Delivery, Energy, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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How Can I Have Casual Sex And Leave Them Feeling Great?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7p91IWa1t3w Cathy: Someone wrote in and said to Reid, I love your interview with Christopher Ryan. It was really good and he continued although it’s too short I definitely need help with the cabin casual sex and leaving a girl feeling great about our relationship. Can you give us some advice? This is Reid Mihalko from https://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and we have a new microphone that we’re [...]

By |2017-05-09T13:30:59+00:00October 20, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Delivery, Energy, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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What Do You Do If Someone Smells? How Do You Tell Them?

Dealing with someone's odors can be challenging. Can you talk to them about it? Learn how with Dan Powers and Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSjaD2CsmVQ Dan: Have you ever been to an event and somebody really smell not quite right for you.  Well, I’ve got two beautiful women here that can help us answer the question.. Cathy and Elizabeth:  What do you do then? [...]

By |2017-05-08T20:37:48+00:00October 14, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|
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